Unselfish behaviour?

I put Marian on to my shoulders (piggy back) and she was holding my head gently so as not to pull on my hair and hurt me. I gently tilted backwards so that she can be upside down (she likes this). She grabbed my head hard and I told her that she was causing me pain. She at once let go and went upside down. She did decide to look after me than to look after herself.